human connection

can you love without losing yourself?

on attachment, identity loss, and how the people we contort for often reflect our wounds, not our worth

Jun 17 •

jealousy’s hidden logic

on envy as a mirror and the alchemy of turning lack into self-revelation

Jun 12 •

the avoidant logic of love

the paradox of needing space to feel safe

May 24 •

the whore, the saint, and the woman in between

from purity culture to porn culture: different costumes, same control

May 17 •

the anatomy of yearning

memory, biology, and the ache of almost

Apr 28 •

how to start creating again

the psychology of creativity and perfectionism, why we stop making what we love, and how we begin again

Apr 15 •

everyone’s sitting outside again

the science of springtime, memory, nervous system belonging, and why we gather when the sun comes back

Apr 7 •

in a world that does not pause for us, we pause for each other

making meaning in a universe that doesn’t care: on the multiverse, cosmic insignificance, and the absurdity of it all

Apr 4 •

you are what you’ve touched

how measurement, memory, and observation shape the self

Mar 31 •

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